20 Questions to Ask Your Partner Instead of “How Was Your Day?”
“Fine” is not an answer. It's a door closing politely.
Stories
Personal essays and practical ideas about raising readers, reluctant readers, family evenings and relationships, and the books that sometimes help us understand all of it.
“Fine” is not an answer. It's a door closing politely.
At the start, we wanted to know everything. Now we mostly ask about the shopping.
Nobody decides to stop talking to their partner. It happens slowly, in the noise of work, children and screens. A personal note on how couples drift, and the small, unglamorous ways back to each other.
Reading logs, minute counts and questions after every chapter can quietly turn books into homework. Why forcing a child to read often backfires, and how to keep reading a pleasure at home.
Once a week: a short personal note, one article about reading or family life, one practical idea to try, and a question you can answer just by replying. One email a week, never a sales pitch.
Reading with children is rarely only about books.
Not a photo for Instagram. A corner a child chooses on their own.
Stories about the ways we find each other, lose each other and sometimes find our way back.
On the strange loneliness of being close and far away at the same time.
Our odd, changing, lifelong relationship with reading itself.
We forget the plots. We never forget how they felt.
Reviews with a point of view: what a book understands about people, and what didn't work.
Not a checklist. A shelf of stories worth sharing while they still want you to read them aloud.
The ordinary, unglamorous parts of being a person, and the books that sometimes help with them.
The routines on our phones are beautiful. Ours just has to survive a Tuesday.
Is my child behind in reading, or just reading at their own pace? What's normal varies more than parents think. The signs worth paying attention to, the ones that aren't, and when to talk to a teacher.
Ten questions to ask children after a story that open a real conversation instead of testing them. No right answers, no comprehension quiz, just ways into what your child noticed and felt.
“Reading is boring” is one of the most common things children say about books. What it usually means, what not to say back, and practical ways to help a child find a book that isn't.
Why does one child devour books while another avoids them? It's rarely intelligence or laziness. The quieter reasons children turn away from reading, and what a parent can change.
Bedtime reading doesn't need an hour, a perfect book or a calm child. A ten-minute habit that fits into an ordinary evening, and why its smallness is exactly what makes it last.
Your child can read, the teacher says they're fine, and still they never pick up a book. Why reading ability and reading desire are different things, and gentle ways to build the second one at home.
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